Being a parent who doesn’t live near your children isn’t easy, especially if the distance came after you lived in the same home as them. Finding ways to connect with your children despite the miles between you and them may be a priority.
One option that you have is virtual visits. These visits are possible because of technology. Oftentimes, they come in the form of video chats. With a little planning, you can make these visits a meaningful part of your relationship with your children.
Set the time according to the children’s schedule
The virtual visits should be set based on when it’s best for the children. When there are time zone differences, this could mean that the time isn’t very convenient for you. During the visit, your child should be free to communicate with you in the same manner that’s possible when you see each other in person.
Choose activities for the virtual visits
Virtual visits are a time for you and your children to do something that fosters a meaningful relationship. This could mean just talking, but it may also involve doing other things like reading a bedtime story or playing a board game together. You can even watch movies with them or help them with their homework during these visits.
Virtual visits won’t ever fully replace in-person visits with your children. It’s critical that you have the terms for the virtual visits and the physical visits in the parenting plan. Working with someone who can assist you with ensuring you have everything spelled out in a clear and legally enforceable manner is often beneficial.